Twin sister. Should be close and have always spent a lot of time together. In the past couple of years, every conversation has become about her work and how hard it is. I have spent hours listening but am never asked about my work which is hard and very stressful. She has also started to belittle things that I do and has no 'off switch" to regulate herself. She has cut her hours considerably but still moans. Her company is not enjoyable. She is boring and rude. I feel awful saying this about someone in my family.
So, mumsnetters.....advice please on how to tackle this and ideas for what to say next time she starts!