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Is this a red flag?

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thatonesmummys · 27/09/2017 23:31

Dp and I having a bicker about something he did in the past when we had just split up, he walks past me glaring at me punching his fists? I don't think he'd hit me, but it's made me think wtf?

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Smeaton · 27/09/2017 23:34

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Aquamarine1029 · 28/09/2017 00:04

That is abusive and violent, and the fact he didn't actually hit you is irrelevant. He was very clearly threatening you with violence. This is 100% NOT OK. Get rid of this asshole.

disneydatknee · 28/09/2017 00:13

That's threatening. I would see that as a red flag. How long have you been together?

LuckLuckLUCK · 28/09/2017 00:59

It certainly does sound threatening, did you feel threatened? (Regardless of whether or not you think he would actually hit you)

thatonesmummys · 28/09/2017 01:17

Nearly 4 years. I just felt a bit Hmm if it was random I don't think I would of thought that much of it. As we were bickering an I said something to bother him then he does it as he's walking out the room I did think wtf why are you doing that!

It's probably nothing but I did find it very odd. I said to him is that what you want to do to me is it, he walked out an didn't reply. We weren't having a full blown argument. We haven't been that good recently he's sly and manipulative when we're arguing I physically cannot argue with him without him blatantly lying and twisting stuff. I've actually felt really put off by him recently

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rockabillyruby82 · 28/09/2017 01:22

Sly, manipulative and lies. Those are red flags in my book!

oldlaundbooth · 28/09/2017 01:34

God just get rid of him.

Shoxfordian · 28/09/2017 05:25

Manipulative lying and aggressive
Ltb

AttilaTheMeerkat · 28/09/2017 07:19

You have felt put off by him recently for good reason; you and he should not now be together. There are a lot of red flags flying here re him and he is not going to improve. You're now seeing what his true nature really is.

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