May 1987
I've met this guy, he seems ok and has asked me out. I'm 17 and he's 25. He told me he plays cricket Leeds but I've just found out it's for an amateur team who play on Leeds Road, is it a bit odd that he's done that?
July 1987
My bf is amazing, so clever he makes me feel really thick. He has a degree a 2.2 which he tells me is the highest you can get, he has his name then Bsc on his cheques. I went to watch him play cricket and the other players call him Lordy because at the first training session someome asked what they should call him and he said " you can call me my lord" WTF?
October 1987
We are married! I annoyed him during the ceremony because I smiled at him whilst he was very serious faced, he told me after that he was taking his vows seriously and it wasn't a smiling matter. I apologised, I don't like to upset him. Was I in the wrong?
October 1988
I have a baby boy, I wanted to breastfeed but quite rightly DH said it wasn't fair, he wanted to feed the baby too. I've been making him cross all the time, I know it's my fault but I hate the fact that he breaks things when he gets angry. I need to learn to treat him with respect.
January 2000
I have 3 children, I still wind DH up and make him angry, we are fighting all the time. He was going to smash my great grandmothers ornament and I begged him not to, he said it's either that or my face so he hit me, put his hands around my throat until I thought I was going to pass out. I keep apologising to him for making him do that. How can I make it up to him?
Now
Thankfully we are no longer married, he tried to control me even after we split up but it took me a long time to realise that he was an abusive bastard.