I found porn and now I've got no idea what to do

[AmazingGrace16]

Name changed for this.

Dh and I don't have a great sex life. It's not for want of me trying but he's never in the mood.

Today I've found porn on his computer and an incognito option in chrome so that anything he searches in there can't be traced. The porn I found was in the normal chrome browser history so I've got no idea if he uses incognito or if it comes with all chrome browsers?

The type of porn he's searched for is skinny 18 year olds. I'm not skinny.

I'm feeling numb. I'm feeling like I repulse him and having had an eating disorder in the past I can feel myself already getting tempted.

I don't know what to do.

So we spoke. He was so honest. I admire him so much for that. He told me that yes he's been accessing it and for a while but that it's never affected our sex life. He's told me he thinks he has low testosterone as he's never in the mood for intimacy. He reassured me that he fancies and loves me.

My head is still all over the place but talking helped.

Thanks for listening.

I'm so glad OP! Good for you and I'm so happy you're feeling better. Moan here any time!