loyalty

[boudicca]

I've been thinking/wrestling about this subject for a while now.Does anyone have any thoughts or examples of loyalty/disloyalty with regard to close family or friends?I'm in an ongoing 'situation'and would welcome your input.

I am very loyal, my childrens father isn't he is disloyal, my friends from school are loyal, the mothers from school are disloyal, loyalty is the way forward, disloyalty is bad

thanks Ff,but what do you consider to be disloyal?

loyalty is sticking up for someone in public even if you bllck them in private!
Loyalty can be misused...women who let men abuse their children and claim they did it out of loyalty?

close family and friends should always be loyal to you - they should keep confidences and support you regardless.

loyalty is when you side with people you love even sometimes when they are wrong.

It's going the extra mile when you don't feel like it - visiting friends who are long-term hospital patients etc, even when you don't get anything out of it yourself, but they do so you carry on.

Loyalty shows itself in little things and in big. Easier to see in big things, so here's a little thing: when in public, and however much there might be disagreement in private, keeping remarks supportive - so basically, not saying things which are put-downs.

blackduck put it more clearly!

I agree with those sentiments Bd
Gm what if the 'other' party is family tho?

Loyalty is when you get lots of presents for your birthday

Ahem...just in case anyone has forgotten it is fairyfly's birthday tomorrow. There, I've said it for you, no need to hint any more

I wasn't hinting i was just mentioning the fact i am thirty tomorrow, no big deal, just thirty tomorrow, thats it

Happy birthday to you ,
happy birthday to you,
happy birthday,dear Fairyfly,
happy birthday to you.

love B xxx

Still time to buy and send a card and gift, large or small. Just email janstar for the address. fairyfly particularly likes giraffes, gin, white wine, hairdressers and members of boybands.

sorry boudicca we're getting off the point here.

Janstar you know my soul

boudicca I would not trust them again and if I thought it worthwhile I would confront them and ask what is happenning- is it possible they have got hold of teh wrong end of the stick or are just not thinking before doing
fairyfly happy birthday

Thanks Boudicca you are the first, i will hold you dear forever

thank you Ff,I'll hold you to that
Gm,not wrong end of stick,and as for thinking-
I think 'they 'just think it's me being jelous,which I'm sure I'm not,just can't understand how/why my feelings should be so unimportant

It's good to know i'm in such like minded company,thank you all

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