First time posting. I'm married to a terribly abusive emotionally and physically man. He's hurt me on numerous occasions, threatened my family, hit me, spat at me, smashed all my stuff. I tried to help him, visited the doctors with him explained what he had done, they told me to lock myself in a room when he started on one of his episodes. He seemed to turn a corner after this and had counselling, took medication. I came in to some money and stupidly invested in to a business with him. It worked for a bit, but the old him returned with a vengeance. I've left him and am now at a point I want a divorce and a new life but know he won't let that happen. I want my money out the business, I've a paper trail of all I paid for. Everything came out of my bank and he never paid for a thing. I'm just frightened he will sell up and pocket the money then come for me if I don't get this sorted, but I need to do so without alerting him. Is this possible? It's a mess and he's a very dangerous man. Any suggestions or advice will be gratefully received.