Just sex

[Fulltimeparent]

Hi, does any else’s DH or P like having sex then no cuddling or kissing after feel used.

I'm sorry you are feeling like this. And it doesn't matter what anyone else does, it's ok for you to ask your partner for what you want.

Do you ask them to stay a bit longer or initiate a hug yourself? Think you need to talk to your partner

I don't like kissing or cuddling after sex I like to go to sleep or get on with the day.

I'm like Schmoopy May cuddle if there is going to be a round 2 or 3

I would ask - they might not like it or might not think it's something you want?

It depends what kind of sex. If it's a quickie then no, I want to get showered and out the house (usually it's a morning thing for me) but the OH, he likes to at least have a snog etc after. He's a softie

When we have more "time" then yes I quite like a lay in bed and some affection. It sometimes leads to seconds

It really comes down to what you want though. You should talk to your DP

If you were happy, it wouldn't matter what other people do.

It matters that you're not happy. It totally doesn't matter if other people need or want a cuddle after sex. Your needs and wants count.

What does he say, when you say you'd like to cuddle and kiss after?

Love cuddles after sex,it seems more complete ,and close , with some affection

Been with partner 9 years.. can't remember the last time we cuddled after sex.
Normally just go to sleep, with our backs to each other as I like space.
If it's in the morning then we just get up.

Don't think I miss it, didn't even realize we didn't cuddle after tbh.

I don't like the whole cuddling and kissing thing after sex either. I'm not sure why.
Id you feel that way then you need to talk with your partner, it's not nice

Possibly depends what stage the relationship is at too