Not so DH has stayed out all night - why won't he just leave?

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I so wish he would. DCs (at uni) need a solid base at home and it's been pretty toxic for about 4 years now and I am sick of sleeping on the sofa.

thank you for the good advice speakout
I hadn't realised that was an option. I've been feeling really trapped but it seems there is a way out. I just need to bite the bullet and get on with it.

I hope your life is good now.

The problem with leaving is one of DCs needs somewhere solid, secure and supportive to stay for the next few months.

The problem is that, as it stands they haven't got that have they? Instead they've got an unhappy, toxic atmosphere at home. A supportive home isn't bricks and mortar.

No I know Bitoutofpractice that's why I wish my OH would leave.

The toxic atmosphere is because we are both here and is worse when DCs are home.

Either of us could leave. I just wish he would because it would be less disruptive for DC and he would still have access to the places he goes when that's what he needs.