I was due to go on a 3rd date with this guy this past Sunday. Previous dates have been great. He is horrible at contact in between dates. It's mostly by text and he is really bad at stringing a sentence together via text and all his messages are cringeworthy. But the dates themselves have been amazing. To give background: we met by chance in real life, not had sex yet but made out fairly seriously on 2nd date.
So Sunday came and went and didn't hear from him. We hadn't decided on a place and time. I didn't contact him because frankly this isn't the first time he's been flaky like this and I felt it better to wait and see if he is capable of actually making proper plans. Today he finally gets in touch to ask how I am. I replied:
"Weren't we supposed to be going out yesterday?"
His reply:
"Was we....oops.... I've not been so well since last week...just waiting to get better before I come n see u."
My reply:
"Erm....that's interesting."
His reply:
"U don't believe me. I don't talk about illness...but will be proper better by end of this week...and then I'll come and give you a proper good night" [followed by emoji with its tongue hanging out]
What the actual f*ck?
This is a man in his 40s. I'm just wondering if there is something wrong with him mentally. I know he was smoking huge amounts of weed every day (or so he said) but he claimed to have stopped just after het met.