Hi I don't want this in the daily mail so will be vague and throw scent off links to me irl if that's ok?
Basically my husband Dhh ( dick head husband) has always been crap with money, he's got various cards over various years and get himself into debt.
I have always tried to help him out, paying them off which ultimately enables him to get a new card and increase his last amount owed.
I knew he had about £15,000 debt at xmas this year, but I also found out he had cleared out the kids accounts ( no idea how much they had but guess > £5000 in total. I told him I was leaving him. He said he would let met help him to get out of debt. Stupid me wanted to believe him.
So this month I found out he's defaulted on some repayments, gone over his overdraft etc so stupidly again I gave him £5000 to get back in the red. He gave me all his cards.
Today a letter came for him, I don't trust him so I opened it. A NEW card I knew nothing about has said he's in arrears! So I honestly don't know how many cards he has or how much his debt is.i also found out he's taken back all the credit cards he's given me. I have changed my bank pin, made sure I have zero cash in the house and changed my phones pin. I have hid his current account card and the last credit card I have. What else should I do? My gut says move my money asap before he gets to this as well.
We have a JA which I'm desperately trying to close which he's gone over drawn on. Mortgage bounced this month too!
He's a lieing a hole and to be honest he's got zero redeeming features. He's started snapping at me and try's to make out I'm nagging when I try to help.
If he goes into debt management will his access to credit stop? Will it effect my credit rating?
Help!