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gg1234 · 17/09/2017 21:33

I am my hubby has been into a lot of heated arguments lately .He shouts at very small and very timid things and I personally am very sensitive to shouting .Yes it may be my mistake but if you shout it doesnt help .So today he shouted at me in the morning saying that I am not sincere in educating my child and I am doing the wrong method of teaching him .Point taken but was there a need to say things like" Are you educated and do you really know how to teach .I said straight to him that he was very rude .Next tonight as I am writing this post I am crying because yes in some application that we were making to the concil I might have done some mistake which is not yet proved here Since the council has not yet come back with the result but still my hubby will shout at the top of his voice and say things like " Do you really know what you have done .I am eating all his wrath and hatred and I dont like it .My hubby says there was no need to cry since it was my fault and I am just overreacting .Am I ?

Is this normal behaviour.Do married couples dont do mistakes in a lot of things and then the only way to come out of it is to shout on the top of ones voice . What should I do ?

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ferriswheel · 17/09/2017 21:35

It is not normal. You should read Living with the Dominator by Pat Craven.

ferriswheel · 17/09/2017 21:35

It is not normal. You should read Living with the Dominator by Pat Craven.

foxyloxy78 · 17/09/2017 21:37

Sounds like your husband is quite an angry man. How lo g have you been married? Perhaps try marriage counselling if he won't listen to you. But no, you don't deserve to be shouted at.

gg1234 · 17/09/2017 21:38

Thank yo so much Ferriswheel I will read it

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Apileofballyhoo · 17/09/2017 21:50

Read the first post at the top of the relationships page. Constant shouting isn't normal. Flowers

ferriswheel · 17/09/2017 22:14

Read in secret.

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