New dating thread? I have a date. Feel sick. Help.

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Not sure if this should be in the daters thread but it's not accepting new posts.

Bit of background: with ex for 16 years, married for 3, two DDs 8&6. Month ago found out he'd had a 6 YEAR affair, getting divorced. Feels right to do some OLD as I've been so unfulfilled for years, but also feels disloyal somehow though which I know I shouldn't. I feel like I might be harshly judged if I tell friends. I know it's very early days...

Anyway, I joined Guardian Soulmates and have a date on Monday. The sexual tension is off the chart though he knows my situation and we're going for an innocent walk and a drink.

Help I'm a wreck though he seems very nice. Any tips? Calming words? I'm sooooo out of practice.

This is the new thread - come on over. The Dating Thread Number 122: Colour By Numbers

There is a new darting thread, come on over.

I joined OLD after finally splitting with my husband, to begin with it was just a bit of fun, I had a few one nighters but it was worth it .

I still get nervous even though I have been on many dates, just go and enjoy yourself, don't get your hopes up and don't jump on him unless that's what you both want (if so enjoy).

I really would save any 'sexual tension' until after you've met !

Unless you're only after a hook up in which case, as you were :)