NC. When you love someone sooner or later they hurt you, right? That's my experience anyway. And sometimes you get beyond the hurt and put it behind you and love them again. And sometimes you can't. And when you're too scared of being hurt to love properly, what then? How do people do it, trust someone not to hurt them when inevitably they will? Maybe not leaving / affair / betrayal hurt but at least say vile things / furious row hurt. How do you get over being hurt so you can love again?