My DP and I have been together for 9 years and have a DD who is 18 months old. Life has been hard for the last 6 months. His DM has been very poorly and he has had to spend a lot of time out of work looking after her. This has been an awful time for him. It also has meant we have suffered greatly financially. I have 3 DSD too, which I have always struggled with, they don't live with us. I have tried very hard over the last few months to bond better with them, and thankfully improvement is showing. But still a long way to go.
Sometimes I think he doesn't help as much as he could with house hold chores and looking after DD but I don't say anything because he pays the majority of the bills.
That's a bit of back ground anyway.
Lately - probably over the last 4 months we seemed to have lost the love we had. It's hard to explain - the closeness is missing.
Just wondering if anyone has been through this and come out the other side?
I love him and sex life, although not often at the moment, is always good when we do it.