Just lately my partner has a knack for annoying me, without meaning to. He says the most annoying things and I just snap instantly but I don't know if I'm justified in getting annoyed or if it's a sign of something deeper.
For instance my cousin and his girlfriend have just bought a nice big house in a good area, I told my partner who replied "oh, maybe they're getting ready to have a couple of kids?" It's like everything is so black and white to him, like he believes that if a couple want kids they just make the decision and a few months down the line 2 kids pop out, it makes me so angry the way he thinks everything is so simple and easy.
A family member died recently and we went to the cemeteray to try and find his grave but couldnt so DP says "oh it's ok, we'll just give s*** (my aunt) a ring and ask her where it is....I've not spoken to my aunt for ages, we don't talk like that as a family and apart from that she was extremely close to this family member, as if I can just phone out of the blue and ask that
He says stuff like this all the time and it boils my blood, justified?