I am Chinese and my husband is English, I am not very good at English but I will try my best to explain. I had a girlfriend who I met while I was traveling a few years ago, by then I was single. We traveled together few times and we felt we understood each other, she is from Germany. Our friendship last for few years I always mention her to my husband how awesome she is after I got married. When my son was three months old she came to visit us with her boyfriend. 3 days later she and her boyfriend had a fight, he left. Then things got wired, the next morning, when I woke up she was sitting at the table has only a big men's shirt with top few buttons opening showing her a lot part of her breast and bottom with a triangle underwear, that's all she had on her and loosely. I felt uncomfortable but I thought coz there's cultural difference. We all sat down at the table and my husband sat at the table against her, which made me feel quite uncomfortable as well. We had breakfast then I was taking baby out for a walk partly also want to leave the house and I know my husband needed to go to work at that point. We started to pack stuff get baby ready, my husband also gathered his bag and putting his shoes on and we were walking towards the door and said goodbye to her, while I was just pushed prim outside the door, my husband with shoes on, bag for work in his hand, shut the door in front of my face, he said nothing but just shut me outside the door. I was shocked but I was too stupid I should have knocked the door and ask him what's going on and why he shut me outside, and he was suppose to leave for work! Instead I walked downstairs with all kinds of thinking like I should trust him, and she is my best friend, I think too much and I am a jealousy woman...while on the ground floor just outside the apartment some old ladies we knew stopped us and played with my son, like they always did, I was also with too much things going on my mind so I stood there racing my mind thinking should I go back or not...about 15 minutes later my husband came downstairs and he was surprised to see me and with upset in his eyes, he walked passed me said goodbye without stop and immediately walked away.
That night I asked him, you were supposed to go with me why you did that?
He said he was cleaning the ice from freezer.
Did you talk with her?
No
Another time I asked him, said I still don't understand, that's strange you did that. And that's a long time up there.
He said I cleaned the freezer coz I said there's too much ice and I did chart a little bit with her.
Third time he answered he was cleaning the trash and he did not talk with her at all.
Then I told him you are changing your answers.
He said he just forgot what he did.
I know I am stupid and I didn't either completely trust him and also I didn't do any reaction to solve the problem from the beginning and I deserve these doubt on mind. what had happened is not important now but I started to not trust him from then on...
And my friend , she was wired too and that day after I walked mg baby when I was back home, she had her normal clothes on, properly dressed at my home. She changed her clothes though she wasn't trying to go out.
Might be totally nothing had happened. I was just too stupid and think too much. And there's no answer anyway coz he doesn't remember and he think it's nothing important.