I called off a relationship with my ex 12 days ago and have been NC since. We were together properly for 2 years before splitting up (his decision)and since then for the past year and a half have fallen into a non committal limbo relationship.
Eventually I decided enough was enough and told him to take some time to think about what he wants and if it isn't me then we both need to move on.
I haven't contacted him since then but in the past 12 days he has contacted me on 2 separate occasions in the middle of the night (so I'm assuming drunk) with texts and calls saying that he loves me and he wants to meet up to talk and now knows what he wants.
I've ignored these messages as I feel as though this is a conversation that needs to come from a sober place but I'm worried that by ignoring him he will assume I'm not interested and give up.
Do these messages even mean anything? I love this man but I don't want to be strung along again. Should I break NC to reply or carry on with NC?