I live with my ex but havnt been together as a couple for a few years but we still do couple things in that time he was involved with two ladies one he nearlly had a child with it turned out not to be his the other one thought she was pregnant aswell. I wanted to have a baby I'm in my early 30s and thought having one with him would be a good idea it wasn't I don't know what I was thinking.
So fast forward to 33 weeks and things are really bad. I do everything for him washing up, washing of the clothes, make his food, do the food shopping even shave his hair and put product in it. And the rent he gives me doesn't cover everything. He calls me selfish and that I go around thinking I do alot when I don't do as much as I think I do. He speaks to me like im always the bad person even has said he doesn't like spending time with me and doesn't like me as a person and that hea never met a person that annoys him as much as I do. He says I follow him around which I do as he leaves his stuff lying around so I clean up after him he won't clean the house as it's a old house and to him looks messy and cleaning wouldn't help. I uploaded on his mother about how he treats me in front of him and she said he was the same when he lived at hers. He's now demanding I say sorry to her for what I said and that I need to think of others and not myself because she's got alot of her plate and I shouldn't of told her our problems. I'm not replying to his messages and he's astonished I won't say sorry. He has said he doesn't want me moving out as the baby is due soon and doesn't want the stress but after a few months well talk about things and I'll eventually have to move out but all this is stressing me out. He has even said they'll be a possibility hell take me to court for custody of the baby.
He has a good way of making me forget what has been said and sometimes says something and then denies it even did a pfft face to his mother to make her think I'm over reacting. And says something and when I talk talks over me to make me forget what has upset me then asks me to repeat it but because I can't remember as he's confused me he laughs and tells me to stop being a tit.
My family have said this is mind games. Is it more than that? I have no friends just my family. I don't know if I should mention all this to my midwife or health visitor. He has a good way of making me feel the bad guy for standing up for myself and speaking my mind.
I'm so scared hell get my baby taken of me and paint me out to be the bad person and him the angel.
Sorry if I have rambled on his situation is so hard to explain.