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Do I trust my gut?

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MozzchopsThirty · 10/09/2017 15:15

Met a guy a few months ago and had 3 dates.
Final date I went to his house and literally ran out and down the steeet, just felt this overwhelming urge to leave.

Anyway we recently hooked up again as he came across as 'a nice guy'

Even though he's done nothing terribly wrong there are a few things that have made me Hmm and I just don't really feel any attachment to him at all

He commented on me sleeping in a bed with ds2 and said I needed 'to stop that before it becomes a problem'
He commented on a body part of mine that I'm self conscious about, I'd told him previously then after sex he said 'I can see what you mean about x'
He says things like 'we could be really special together' which makes me feel a little nauseous and he will say 'I'm a good kisser and so are you so together we're perfect'
He talks a lot about money & his business
He says he's a genuinely nice guy and wants someone to adore and says that could be me

Also his childcare arrangements totally don't fit with mine or what I want

I feel bad that I'm going to end it again but there's something not right and I can't put my finger on it

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MozzchopsThirty · 10/09/2017 17:21

He hasn't messaged at all today so
I'm hoping he's got that I've pulled away

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PickAChew · 10/09/2017 17:24

You don't need to justify yourself to him.

Besides, if you were going to be honest you'd have to tell him that he gives you the creeps. Making something up to avoid saying that is pointless. You've only had a few dates and owe him no explanation.

MozzchopsThirty · 10/09/2017 21:15

Still no contact
I'm hoping he's lost interest

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