Doing what's best

[babycow38]

I am staying in an unsatisfactory relationship because my child is in the Year 11 , exams, needs support, my question on here is, I know I can do this, but does anyone else just live day to day, live for their child to get out of education and then you maybe, just, maybe be able to think about what you need xxx

I know someone who did this and TBH it did neither her nor her DCs any good at all. Get out, it'll be best in the long run.

You should leave when you are ready to, but from today you should planning for your new life.

Look at all aspects of your life, and make changes that lead towards your new future - health, other family relationships, work, finances, living arrangements.

I understand why you are putting your child first but what about next year when they start A levels? There is always something to prevent you going.