So after months of exh initially choosing his new girlfriend over spending time with our DC at weekends, verbal abuse from him, physical violence from him that resulted in the police being called and social services getting involved and us being told he can continue to see the kids but he's not to come to my house so we're to use a 3rd party for drop off/hand over, further abuse from him over me not apologising for calling the police after he assaulted me, him moaning about how desperate he is to see the kids, how much he misses them now that it's been a whole month since he's seen them at all I thought fine I'll be the bigger person.
I offered him to see the kids tomorrow, gave loads of ways we can hand over the kids safely etc and he said no he'd rather wait until he has something sorted legally even though that's not something we've been told has to happen (as an aside no idea how he plans on paying for that)
That's all fair enough I suppose except the kids go longer without seeing him and he them.
I've just been sent a screenshot from a mutual friend of his Facebook timeline that shows he's at the cinema with his girlfriend- social services also carried out an assessment on her and she'd refused to see him this past month.
So clearly the reason he's said no to tomorrow is because he's with her.
We're right back to the beginning, I don't know why I'm surprised or angry or why I bothered in the first place