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CLASS ROOM ISSUES

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Pauline25 · 08/09/2017 17:27

Hi Another child in my sons class keeps accusing my child of being unkind to them. This has happened last year too. Both times I have spoken with the teacher who is not aware of any problem. In fact has said the the other mums child has had issues with other children but not my child. The other mum blames my child completely. I think the issue is jealousy and I don't know how to deal with it. I have tried telling the other mum gently that her child needs to tell the teacher immediately this happens but it seems her child blames mine for anything that happens. My child has come home and said her son is unkind to them but I have not made an issue of it so as not to fan the flames as it were. It is making school drop offs etc really difficult as she is clicky with other mums and I feel like she is discussing my child with them. If my child was being unkind I would stop them but I think its just kids being kids. Any words of how to deal with this?

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MissNobody · 08/09/2017 17:32

What age are they?

Pauline25 · 14/09/2017 16:16

They are in year 3 so 8.

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BertrandRussell · 14/09/2017 16:17

"I feel like she is discussing my child with them." What makes you think this?

Aussiebean · 14/09/2017 16:28

Is there more then one yr 3 class? If so ask the school to separate them.

Pauline25 · 14/09/2017 17:24

Only 1 year 3 class as its a small school. I know she is discussing my child with other mums because since I originally posted, I asked one of the other mums if they knew what was going on in class and they said they knew about what happened last time. They had also asked their child about what happened and they said that the child was not distressed in class and in fact was joining in and seeking out my child to play with!

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Pauline25 · 14/09/2017 17:29

Also spoke with the current teacher who said her son plays nicely with my son in class. I think as her son is getting a reaction from her when he complains this will continue until she stops agreeing with him and tells him to stop whining. I know kids will be kids but.....

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