Should I even go on this date?

[Louisaj2345]

So I'm 32 and he is 28.
I met him on tinder.
He still lives at home with his mum and he works night shift at asda 5 days a week and I work 9/5 so when would I see him?
I don't think I fancy him and he is only 5ft 4
I'm full of cold
He seems nice enough but I'm not sure if I can be bothered

I wouldn't bother personally. It would be a waste of time.

If you're not feeling it then don't go.

No.
This has NO, DON'T DO IT! written ALL over it.

I'm really not feeling it at all
It feels like work ...

If you're not even luke-warm at the prospect, why bother?

Would it make a difference if he worked at Waitrose?

It doesn't sound like you're into anything about him. What is making you think you should go on the date?

Why go then?

No it's nothing to do with where he works,it's the fact he works 5 nights 8-6 night shift
So if I did like him,how would we see each other etc
I'm single and have been for 9 months.
Don't want to end up alone but if I seen him in the street I wouldn't look twice.

Then on the other hand he seems lovely and considerate.
Talking about walking me to the train home.

Either look at at this date as a fun thing to do one evening or don't go. You don't seem to want to, so don't. Anybody isn't better than nobody.

Why? You are not well, you don't seem to be interested either

Don't want to end up alone but if I seen him in the street I wouldn't look twice.

That way madness lies. Don't settle because you don't want to be alone. You're only 32; and if you bugger it up settling for someone and it falls apart later because you aren't really matched, you'll feel like you've wasted even more time.

With OLD you have to be a little ruthless otherwise you'll be on loads of dates with people there's no chance of anything happening with and it's a total waste of make up.

Don't go in a nutshell. It doesn't matter what is on your criteria list, it can be as picky & elitist as you want.

no, never settle out of fear. god no no no.

You're 32 (though at any age I don't think this is a great prospect- nothing to do with him but all to do with how uninterested you are) what are you worried about?
9 months is not long at all. Don't settle.

You're being totally hysterical over worrying about being alone. You have ZERO interest in this guy and he sounds like a dud. Don't go on this date. Nothing but a waste of time.