Can I get past this?

[Dolphins23]

Been with my boyfriend just over a year, it has been complicated and we do argue most of the time when he wasn't with me and working. But for a month we have finally stopped all that and became settled. But a couple of days of ago I've found out that the last time we argued the other month ) he had gone to another woman's house to give her a fag and chat I have asked this woman what happened and she said he only stayed 10 mins and said he needed to go, he said he realised it was a mistake and left. Nothing happened. But I can't get it out of my head. What if he does it again. And is he really going straight back to his after work etc when he does. All his time off he spends with me and a couple of times when he works he stays over basically nearly moved in. Should I just let it go seen as we were constant arguing and got better? My mind is in constant overdrive.

Sounds like a terrible relationship. You should barely have argued in this honey moon stage. Not worth the hassle imo

Forget the nonsense with this other woman, why are you continuing in a relationship with someone you've spent the last year mostly arguing with? That's a shit existence and you should aim for better.

It shouldn't be like this.
End it.

Why are you with someone who your argue with most of the time?
What's the point?
It's exhausting and unnecessary!
Think about what you get out of this relationship.

Dreadful relationship.

Cut your losses.

Why be with someone you're constantly arguing with? Life is just too short for this

Walk away and don't look back. Already always arguing at a year in? Why bother?

There's nothing in this for either of you. It's bordering on toxic.
Life shouldn't be this difficult

You argue most of the time and are even considering staying with this man? WHY?? Take the blinders off and end it already.

You've been together a YEAR? You've spent most of that arguing?

Fucxache lass you and him don't work.

You argue loads and you don't trust him. End it.

It's not meant to be this difficult OP.

Relationships are for being happy and contented together. They're not meant to includes constant arguing and a lack of trust.

End it, be happy by yourself.