So I this guy messaged me on POF we met up soon after and have been on 8 dates so far. I just get the wrong vibes and my gut feeling is that he is multi-dating getting other offers sporadically. I just need help to understand if I should just move on.
First two dates were fine but third date we went on a movie date and he seemed distant and cold. Fourth date we went cocktail drinking and we kissed but no sex. Fifth date I visited his house and we ended up fooling around but no sex. Sixth date I cooked him dinner, we had sex but he refused to stay over. It was a Friday night and he pretty much ignored me all weekend which was the lovely bank holiday weekend with great weather and I just felt like we could have spent time together. In fact since we've had sex I've felt things have been different he used to text me everyday a friendly message but that's no longer happening. Then he promised to take me out on a park date but cancelled on me that same day! He claimed he'd had diarrhoea! He then took me to the cinema but the date ended abruptly and felt awkward.
Basically on paper he is great but there has been certain things he has said like eluding to the fact that he is multiple dating but claiming he felt we are exclusive. When out at the cinema he told me he was invited to a work party and mentioned possibility of a plus one. I've just texted him to see what he is up to for the weekend and he reminded me about the party but didn't invite me then he said he has to go home to visit his sick uncle. I basically said I really hope everything works out for him and left it at that.
I feel he is multidating and that's why he never seems to be fully available at the weekend. He promises things but doesn't deliver for instance he claimed he was going to book a spa weekend for us but that has not materialised. He also seems to be a little tight about money too.