Stupid question.
Of course a group of strangers can't tell me the answer. But I'd appreciate opinions...
Am early 40s. Single Mum. One lovely DC, aged 6 - who is desperate for a sibling.
I'm (reasonably) fit, healthy, have own home (well, fully mortgaged), pretty secure p/t job - and family (though aging) nearby.
Have been hoping for another relationship since separating with DC Dad. All disasters though.
And would love another child - but time really is running out. And I will probably regret not doing it, once it is too late, IFYKWIM.
So. Have been looking online at Danish sperm donors...
The mechanics of it look straightforward, fairly easy and not too pricey.
But of course, it would be very, very tough. Short term, medium and long term. For me, DC1 - and any future DCs.
I'm a bit worried about just physically and emotionally managing. Plus the guilt - is this a fair thing to do? Ot is it selfish?
Plus - my biggest question - what would I say to donor-child, when DC1 happily skips off to see ExH of a weekend. Where is his / her Dad?!
So do I stop wrecking my head, accept that I am truly blessed to have one gorgeous DC - which I know I am - and concentrate on building a great life with him? Or do I throw caution to the wind, whilst I still (hopefully) can - and go for it?
Advice from anyone who has gone through the process would be very much appreciated!
Thanks x