Hi everyone. My hubby of 21 years has always been strong willed and short fused but now I can't win. He says he's leaving yet again! Says he's not happy I apparently have no time for him because I work, do extras. See to all the house. My mum is I'll and I take our grandson to school approx 3 days a week. He says I don't work enough and I basically spend all his money. I don't ask for anything and contribute half towards the outlays . We sleep in separate beds because I snore and he was getting abusive about it so I retreated to the other room to enable him to sleep as he says I snore and fart like a ferret. Yes I do have my grandson but that is my stress relief and something I enjoy. He now complains that we are never together. I get up extra early to see him before he goes to work and I'm at home every evening. He says some vile things to our youngest daughter he complains I don't work enough but when I'm at work and he's off he also complains. I just can't win. The only time I see my mum is now usually on a Sunday because it's the easiest day and that's when I get to use the car. Which he says he doesn't mind but still has a funny on him. He constantly says people are always taking from him and he's only good when he's giving. Which just isn t true.i try my best to sort the house and work and actually do very little for myself but this still isn t enough. It's like mental torture and I find myself thinking about if I should do things before hand in case of any repercussions he can be the most living person but it's like living on a knife edge. Feel lost like I'm always in the wrong.