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Borris · 05/09/2017 23:12

Just that really

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secretsuzie · 13/09/2017 14:37

Sadly not. I think about it. I even imagine it. Something stops me though.

It is a very difficult situation with lots of interlinking things that don't make it an easy choice or move for me.

It's not that i couldn't but at this moment in time i don't want to. He is a Jekyl and Hide. like most of them.

When we bumble along nicely it is nice. It's been a long time too. I kid myself he can give me the future that i want. That he is a good guy deep down and he can change and he wants to. I am slowly coming to a realisation that wanting to is not good enough though.

I am in a better position at the moment in that i have somewhere to easily go if i decide to. I would be left with nothing though and if i were to walk i likely wouldn't take a penny and would have to move everything in one fast swoop as i couldn't be sure it would be there for me to get at a later date.

I am prepared for the above though if i want to.

Borris · 14/09/2017 13:01

suzie Flowers that sounds awful.

Well I went to the wedding and wore the dress and felt ok. So thanks for the push Grin. He's actually been really nice for the last 2 weeks. So much so that I'm starting to dream happy ever afters. But then realise that the bubble will burst soon.

I'm another one that dreams of him having an affair. Then I can leave without me feeling guilty for upsetting him Confused

I have bought a notebook when I started this thread to write stuff in and so far it's empty.

I did leave once but he persuaded me back. It makes me more nervous to leave again - all that stress and effort and then I wasn't strong enough to stay away. Even though st the time I was adamant that I would

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gingerbreadmam · 14/09/2017 15:12

Boris lovely to hear you wore the dress. Small steps but im glad you felt good and things have been well for a while. Even though you haven't put it to use yet im sure the notebook will be valuable if you di evee need it.

Suzie thats very sad but i understand.

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