I have name changed for this.
I have been looking at online dating for a while since long term relationship ended. I have been out with a couple of men, we hit it off as friends, but that was it, no big deal for any of us.
In the last month I have been talking to a man who looks good, sounds good, and we have seemed a good match.
We have talked a lot about our wishes for a relationship but also about our desires (intimate stuff).
We have swapped photos - nothing naked - just underwear/bikini shots from me and couple of jeans and no tops shots from him.
We have been planning to meet this weekend (distance is a problem - or maybe not)
Last week I had friends visiting so didn't message as much and got a cold vibe from him, nothing really bad, but just felt his responses were short at times.
Last night we were messaging for a long time and he just seemed different. I felt as though there was a control element going on and I haven''t picked up on this before with him.
We have agreed to meet in a halfway point and stay over. We have both said it doesn't mean we will do the deed but we have talked about sharing a room. I am now not sure about any of this. What should I do.
I actually felt a bit frightened last night. I don't think he is going to do anything terrible but I felt as though I might be getting into something that is hard to get out of.
Any advice?