Am I thinking too much into it??

[Spacebound]

Hi everyone,

Just need a bit of advice please. A few months ago my husband was on a works night out, when he got home he had blusher all over his face, he said a woman from work brushed it onto his face out of nowhere as a joke when his friends were taking pictures, he was drunk when he came home but he didn't try to hide it from me, he said he remembers her doing it but he didn't realise there was anything on the brush. The same night he got a taxi into the city with this woman to collect her phone as someone had picked it up by mistake. He is not the type of person to cheat he said he just didn't like the thought of her getting a taxi on her own and I believe him because that's the type of person he is. I just can't get it all out of my head, I try not to think about it we have had a few arguments over it and he promises me nothing at all has happened and it never would, I'm pretty certain I believe him.

Then tonight I was talking about my friend from work, Lauren. He responded so what did Laura say then, I mean Lauren! Laura is the girl he works with. I just ignored it and answered him but I can't stop thinking about it. Am I thinking too much into it or should I be worried?

Thanks

You may get different feedback from others, but I think you might be reading too much into it. Hard for me to say, but I think deep down you will know of something really feels off or if you're feeling quite vulnerable for other reasons. Only you can really decide if there is real trust in your relationship, and if you feel like there's not....then you know, I guess!

I believe you're overthinking it. Hope I'm right

Not enough evidence there to convict him of anything.

I can see how that would play on your mind, but I think you're over thinking it.

Honestly, just based on those two meaningless instances, I think you are very much over thinking this. The name thing means nothing.

Based on the evidence presented here, over thinking.

I have a friend called Laura, I also know people called Lauren (not close friends) I often call her Lauren by mistake... God knows why, I just personally find it easy to get the 2 names mixed up!

You may be overthinking, but I can see how it would play on your mind

From what you've described, it doesn't sound in the least bit dodgy, assuming your dh has a similar personality and is as bad with names as my dh. If you felt it was a sudden change in character, that'd be different.