Fed up of OH ongoing divorce battle

[ineedsummer1]

Anyone else supporting OH in divorce battle? It's been going on 2 years and she doesn't want to budge on anything, she's lied through everything, wants everything! The first court hearing the judge didn't seem to stand for her nonsense, now the 2nd court hearing is next week she hasn't complied with what the judge wanted in the first hearing i.e. a property valuation by a Surveyor, she's just messed around, dreading what's going to happen next week but just want a solution to it all so OH can get some resolution and move be on!!

Never be with some one until the divorce it final .
It muddles the water .

Did he leave her for you?

I'd never go there in the first place. Good luck though

No personal experience but from everything I've read here make sure he gets a complete break agreement that's ratified by the courts. It might seem desirable to agree to anything to be able to move on but it stores huge problems up in the future if there isn't a final settlement. For example if she gets ill, or destitute in future she may come back and ask for additional funds/to pay off her mortgage etc. Also, don't agree anything informally as she can go back on it and your OH won't have a legal leg to stand on.

No he left her for other reasons.

Top tip. .
Discuss things say on a Sunday tea time then pack it away the rest of the week. Or his divorce is the main focus of your relationship and that's not healthy. .
Speaking from experience but it was my divorce. Lasted 4 years for the child contact. . .