I recently married my husband :-)
Was just looking on fb this morning, one of the selling groups and dh's ex and mother of his child popped up. I never usually look at her fb but as she was there in front of me, I decided to have a look.
I've always been slightly insecure of her as I know she's never really got over my husband but I never let it truly bother me as he married me and we are so happy.
Her fb is full of her sharing things - memes I think they are called - basically saying my dh is a crap dad and is never there. How hard it is being a single mother. How children only need mothers and not fathers. How she does both the mother and father role. There's one that says 'don't worry daddy never wants you, mummy does' not to those exact words but that's basically the meaning.
Now my dh is a great dad. I wouldn't of married him other wise. We always have his child when we are supposed to and extra. Always pay maintenance on time. He is such a loving father. I cannot stand the way she is slating him on fb. It's obviously not directed at him. They aren't friends on fb, she doesn't tag him in anything. But they still have so many mutual friends. I'm surprised no one has ever told him the things she puts. Through to be fair, they will all know is BS.
She's gone in a mood with us because we are going on a honeymoon and obviously we are having to miss a weekend of having dsc. we've never had a holiday together before, everyone says how much we deserve a holiday - I recently lost our baby - and not to let her get to us.
The day dh her know about our honeymoon, he got a text from her saying it's clear we don't enjoy having dsc etc. Then now I can see she shared something about how new relationships should never come before children. I'm his wife now! We aren't a new relationship and he always puts dsc first.
I'm not going to tell dh (or maybe I should?)
And are we so wrong to go on a honey moon for a week?