Hi all,
Three months ago (after having my second child) I managed to secure the job of my dreams. At first my boss seemed great and before I started he talked about all the huge projects that I would be involved in (I'm not included in any of them or kept at an arms distance). During the first month I really enjoyed working for him and we shared jokes about kids and our profession etc. I was flirty but that's what I'm like with everyone. We went out on work nights out and I remember showing him a pic of my hubby and he scowled and refused to show me a pic of his wife or even talk about her. We went out to another work party together (just me and him were invited) and he made a point to sit next to me even though his name was elsewhere on the table. He asked me to do up his tie in front of everyone and proceeded to stare at my chest and talk about sex all night. Luckily, I knew others at the party and spent the remainder of the night with them. However, we had booked Taxi's together, so we had to leave early. Before leaving he asked me to have a drink with him and by that time I had forgotten about his weirdness beforehand and stayed for one drink. During the drink, he started to play childish hand games with me and asked me questions about my private life. I mentioned something about me not being the type to cry and he replied 'oh I can make you cry'!!! Anyway, I got into my cab after that and felt a bit strange. Back at work he acted normally and I decided not to mention it. Recently, we were heading for a meeting in town and he directed me to the offices by holding me by my shoulders and leading me to away. This was weird and i told him that I can walk by myself and didn't need escorting like a child. He laughed it off and we said nothing more of it. At work he frequently calls me into his office and stares at my chest and legs or makes me feel uncomfortable. He also tells me about his ex girlfriend who is married with two kids and is texting him everyday. I think his behaviour is quite inappropriate but I think I've left it too late to complain or say anything. Instead, I always try to mention my husband but he just ignores it. Just the other day, he asked me to retrieve his amazon package for him at the end of the week (he was due to go on leave the following day). I said yes but deep down I thought why can't you have it delivered to your house? Personally I think he wanted me to see what he was ordering and it was an album. Am I going mad or is this guy a bit of a creep. Should I look for another job? He is well liked and I think people will take his side over mine.