He wants to separate what practically do I do next?

[thenewstateswoman]

Just that really - this morning he said it's over and he wants to separate. We have been married five years and have a three year old and a dog. We own a house together and I think will be living together in the near future. What do I have to do? I'm a bit numb with shock. Practical advice please?

Did you see it coming?

He says separate... Has he mentioned divorce... Or is this a stepping stone to divorce?

Practical steps.... See a lawyer regarding your financials, to know how it would be for you.

Do you work? Establish child support and visitation with him in the interim.

Things have been a bit rocky but yes it's a shock. I work four days a week. We live in London but I'll have to move away I think- can't afford a house here and to be honest I d rather have a fresh start.

Can I ask him to leave? It's ajointly owned property but I put up all the deposit