I was just wondering if anyone has gotten a court order with their exH/P for the DC And what happened, what were the circumstances.
I've googled but I don't really know how it works. I think I have to get him to mediation first?
Isit worth doing though when they aren't legally binding? So does that mean he can still mess me about even with a court order. He's a policeman so will this have any effect on his career? Or isit irrelevant. It looks like a ballache. But so is the situation im in. Exh has 2 weeks off from tomorrow and it was agreed he has them for one week (after a massive ordeal seem as he doesn't actually want to have them). He lives with a new gf and doesn't have anywhere to have them so he's saod he will have to have them at my house. This doesn't please me but what else can I do? He's been asking for ages if I will have the kids tomorrow day and night because he wants to take the new gf out. But it's the first and only Saturday I will have free to make plans with friends who aren't at wirk so I said no. Not to be spiteful or awkward. But he's going on holiday Friday and hasn't seen them for nearly 3 weeks. Had the whole of bank holiday free. But apparently me saying no to that isn't me being amicable so now he's decided he won't have them until 6pm tomorrow. Doesn't seem like the end of the world but I just wanted a Saturday to myself I'd made plans.
Sorry I've rambled I just find the situation really unfair.