Should I ask him out?

[Strawberriesandmelons]

There's a guy at work who I like. He's very personable and so so calm and kind and has a nice smile. And this is what attracts me about him. And also very handsome! I have known of him for a few years but only really fancied him since February. I hadn't asked him out before because I feel like he's quite conscientious and might say no because we worked together. Anyway it seems this week he has left. I'm not sure if it's another position in the company or to a different company. Anyway I don't have his number but I have found him on Facebook. Do you think I should ask him out this way. I don't have his number so can't call him.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. The worst that can happen is that he says no.

Yeah that was what I think. I'll just keep it casual as in a drink or something! I been thinking about taking more risks lately and having some courage. There's always a risk of being rejected but I feel not so bothered by that because it ls not personal at all and wouldn't have anything to do with me.

Do it! If he's left the company it won't be so bad if he says no. Being rejected actually isn't so bad, and I think people tend to be flattered by being asked out.

Has he given you any indication that he likes you?

Do it! Life is short!