Dirty scumbag

[Mojoey]

So last week I found out my partner if 8 years has been on online sex sites obviously we had a major argument and he left.why do I feel this amount of pain when he was in the wrong.i feel ashamed,humiliated I can't stop crying 😢 don't know how to move on

Do you mean porn sites or sex sites for him to meet up with people??

Sorry you're going through this

Sex sites where u meet up to have sex...i feel like a failure

Your not a failure... you have been failed lovely

Im so sorry to hear this. Ok first thing first. It is not your fault and the reason he's lashing out at you is because he's been found out. Was you otherwise happy in your relationship?

Easy for me to say, but your worth so much more than a guy who is cheating on you. I'd also book in at the doctors or sexual health clinic and check he hasn't left you with a "parting gift".

You are not a failure and it is not your fault. He's the one with the problem, not you. Do you have friends and family around that you can talk to?

I have no one around me only my children.im at an all time low I can't believe this is happening to me.i feel sick..and he's still telling me he loves me..i don't know how to cope with these feelings

Yes our relationship was really good or so I thought..

You need to grieve for the man you thought you knew and the life you thought you shared, you've lost what you had and it's very hard. You've been badly let down and deserved much better. Be kind to yourself