Have been seeing a guy 6 months after leaving an abusive marriage. This has left me with a lot of anxiety and I tend to over think things a lot.
I do have some trust issues, and am on a waiting list for the freedom programme which will hopefully help with this.
Something happened this weekend that has bothered me a little with the new guy and I'm not sure if I'm over reacting.
It's a long distance relationship so we only see each other usually Friday/sat/sun every 3/4 weeks.
He was over mine this weekend, on the Friday he was going on that he needs to book another visit to canada soon to see all his friends over there. Then on Sunday he said he needed to message his friend in Canada and check she was ok due to the hurricane. He was right next to me and I glanced over and just seen one message to her saying 'hope your ok, I love you' with little love hearts after it. She messaged back saying 'I'm fine, thank you for checking up on me I love you too' followed by loads of hearts.
I then sat around over thinking it. I looked on her instagram page and there seems to be a lot of flirting going on during the first 3 months when I was with him but it stopped on there then.
Am I over thinking? She's in a different country. Feel I have lost my ability to judge things like this properly at the moment.