So basically, after being with my DP for only a few months DD was conceived unexpectedly, we had strong feelings for each other so decided to make a go of it, the pregnancy brought us closer together and I love him a lot.
However, for the last few months of my pregnancy, as I got bigger and DD started moving around a lot more DP went right off sex which I struggled with but understood as I know this can be quite normal. And I hoped things would improve after DD was born, who is now 8 months old. This hasn't been the case and it has now got to the point where weeks go by with absolutely nothing and this just doesn't seem to bother him. I have tried to talk to him several times about how much this bothers me so he is aware of it, yet nothing changes and I am getting to the point where I feel like it isn't going to. The last couple of times we've DTD I have felt almost as though he has done it just to stop me going on about it which is obviously awful. I'm really struggling with this and frequently get upset about it and feel as though it's turning me into an insecure version of myself that I really don't like. Not really sure where to go from here.