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What to do :(

6 replies

DJ93 · 25/08/2017 23:04

Iv been meeting this guy for 5 months, at first it was just a friends with benefits thing and we both agreed this.
After about 3 months I grew feelings and he told me he liked me he thinks a lot of me and has a lot of respect for me.
Id stay at his most nights, he cooked for me, we went on dates and he introduced me to his friends and family. He doesn't hide me in any way...
I told him how I felt and he went quiet for a while and said he didn't want to lead me on (fair enough)...
Not long before he got in touch and we started meeting again like before and I really liked him and still do. Seems odd he wants to spend so much time with me but he has said he can only offer me sex which I find sad because he's such a nice guy (I don't just want sex, im not like that) I cant have that kind of relationship with somebody I like more than friends...
I got too much for him the past month or so messaging him loads as if we where a couple because that's what he made me think. We have both tried JUST being friends without the benefits but that didn't last long. We are sexually and mentally attached but he cant commit.
He's turned around and said im crazy and too much so I decided to block him to stop the temptation of messaging him its been a few days now...
He has messaged me tonight through another number, I just don't know what to do :( Its getting me down because he would be perfect and we get on so well... Im sad when im with him because he doesn't wasn't anything more and im sad when I don't see him :(
Do I put my feelings behind me and be JUST friends
OR
Cut him off completely so I don't get hurt?? Please help x x x

OP posts:
AdalindSchade · 25/08/2017 23:06

Cut him off. He's a fuckboy and will never give you what you deserve. What a fraudulent wanker.

Desmondo2016 · 25/08/2017 23:07

Yeah. Don't even reply. Just cut him out altogether. You're not the one for him else he wouldn't be playing games

DB93 · 25/08/2017 23:08

Thanks guys :( x

KarmaNoMore · 25/08/2017 23:12

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LesisMiserable · 25/08/2017 23:22

Yep total fuckboy who has totally told you that's all he's up for and you're still coming back for it (despite the fact you don't just want sex). The awful horrible fact is that men can just want sex whilst being 'friends' because they dont consider you girlfriend material and never will. But they will take the no strings sex because its there. You're better than that. Cut him off before you get more attached to the idea of what it could be like - because its never ever going to happen and its keeping you from being free to find some one decent and yours.

WonderWhippet · 25/08/2017 23:28

You realise you've name changed?

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