Hi lovely people. I would like your advice. I met a guy a few months ago. We had a couple of dates which went really nice, messaged each other but then he suddenly disappeared. He contacted me again a couple of months later apologising and saying that he had issues with his ex girlfriend that he had to resolve and he didn't want to involve me. He sounded sensire and genuine so I went on another date with him. The date went really nice, I had a great time but at the same time I felt a bit reserved and had my guards up and probably didn't send him enough signals that I liked him. I know there is a possibility to start a relationship with him but there are a couple of things that are bothering me. He works abroad: he spends a month working there and then he has a month off in this country. In my mind, I am thinking that the relationship might be quite imbalanced - a month of nothing (just messages/phone calls) followed by a month of everything (he will be at home, will probably want lots of my attention but I also work full time and have kids to look after). It seems to be such a long break to have without seeing and spending time with each other. Can a relationship actually develop and grow? Also, what if he gets a girlfriend there and I would never know (Do I have trust issues?). I am really not sure what is the best thing to do - do not want to have my heart broken and, at the same time, do not want to miss an opportunity. Is it worth giving it a go? Or is it better not to waste time and move on? I like him but, since I have only seen him 3 times and the rest was messaging, there are no deep, true feelings yet. What do you think, kind people? What would you advise? Thank you :)