I'm sure this is normal but I seem to have lost confidence in myself since my 16year relationship ended 5 months ago. I ended the relationship and don't regret it.
Even though it's still very early days, I do crave some male attention although I know it's too soon to start a relationship.
I have no confidence in my body anymore even though I'm getting really fit and working out loads and all I can think is "I'm 41 with 2 kids, who is going to be interested". I started chatting to a guy on Facebook who is 39, single with no kids and I just keep thinking "he will want kids, not someone too old to have any". Even when I go out, if I get chatted up I keep thinking "wait until he hears how old I am and that I have 2 kids"... The thought of actually dating again petrifies me.