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Help Moving On

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Dontknow12 · 23/08/2017 15:27

Ex and I broke up over a year ago now. We were still living together until May this year when he moved out. Since then we have been trying to see if we could possibly get back together. It’s not really working. We slept together once at the start but nothing since. To be honest I am at the point where I need closeness and affection from someone but I don’t think it will be him. I think we are just going through the motions and that he isn’t really into it.

I am unsure how to move on even though I need to. The thought it letting him go and cutting the string fills me with dread. This is only because I know he will find someone and I will be left alone. I can’t stand the thought of him with someone else. We were together almost 16 years so it’s hard to just let go.

I need help……

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splendidisolation · 23/08/2017 16:33

Cut him off, feel the pain, indulge in misery, and recognise that in a few years time you'll think of him and feel absolutely nothing. I can 100% promise it.

Dontknow12 · 23/08/2017 19:57

We own a property together (which I am living in) so not as easy as totally cutting ties.

Luckily no children though.

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