When did you take your ring off? (Amicable split)

[DadOctave]

I took mine off over the weekend, I feel I need to do it in order to physically accept my wife has moved on, although I've read on some forums, that a lot of people have kept it on until after full separation/decree absolute etc

My wife still has hers on, she seemed unfazed by my removing it, but now I feel guilty (!!! yes I know, those of you who have been advising me)

If it's what you need to do as part of moving towards acceptance then it's the right time.

As soon as I found out about XH's affair. He made a big deal of keeping his on all the while he was still seeing OW but swearing he wasn't. I think it eased his guilt somehow.