Evening.
I have recently split up from my oh. I have a child with him, and he has a little girl from a previous relationship who was living with us full time as her mother couldn't cope with her extra needs- she has serious behavioural issues.
I split up from my partner as he was a heavy drinker and I also found out he was using drugs- something which he said he had stopped.
I have made it clear my daughter does not see her daddy till he gets himself clean. However he still has custody of other child, and I have since found out yesterday that he is using coke whilst his little girl is in the house. And over previous weeks he has taken her to the pub, had other drug users in the house while she has been there. Also drunk drove with her in the car.
I have tried contacting little girls mother- she is fully aware of what he is like but has point blank refused to have her daughter back as "she has a job and is getting her life sorted" after my ex had apparently ruined her life.
I'm expecting him to try and make amends with her as he always does when women find out what he's really like. However I am so worried about his daughter, I've tried speaking to the rest of his family to see if they can step in but I just get blocked and called crazy. (They don't bother with my daughter so wasn't expecting much). I've offered to have her till he sorts himself out but got refused.
I haven't heard from in a few days and don't know where or who will have this child. If he has gone back to the daughters mother as he knows she will have him or whether she has just been dumped on some family member whilst he goes and gets off his face on beer and drugs.
I really want to ring social services but when I said this to him and that they could help I got all kinds of threats so I'm scared he will find out it's me.