I recently met a man who told me that he and his partner were leading separate lives, in fact, the first few weeks, we exchange lots of texts. We met and had a really amazing time, nothing sexual, just dinner and drinks
He came to my house for dinner (I know, it was silly for me to invite him to my house and cooked) He had promised that he would bring some wine, however, he came empty-handed but could smell alcohol on his breath. I did not see this as a red flag, maybe he forgot
Dinner went very well - he had to travel up north to see his family. The text between us got less and less, he always makes some excuses of having people around, driving, in meetings, working etc. Then he told me that his partner was joining him on the family visit!
The only time that he would send WhatsApp message is when he knows that I would be unavailable (I work in the evenings) and then he would disappear. when I confronted him about this - he told me that he can only send messages when he is not in meetings, with a company, working, driving etc.
The first few days when he travelled to see his family, he told me that he sees me as a potential partner etc... I have now deleted him on WhatsApp and wrote to him an email explaining that I could not have a relationship with him since he is attached to someone. When I had agreed to start a relationship with him, I believed him when he said that he and his partner live separate lives. (no kiss or anything like that has happened between us) I wanted to wait and not rush into anything. I had bad relationships before, so I am careful
Am I just being jealous? I don't know if I am just jealous or really disappointed that he had lied to me.
Your comments and advice would really be appreciated. Thank you
Just to add - they live together!