Hi I could do with a sounding board and opinions really. I'm divorced but still living in the former matrimonial home with dcs, have been for nearly a decade. They were little when exh left (for OW) and now teen and preteen. I get maintenance which pays the mortgage (exh is high earner) which would stop if I cohabited. I work P/T but don't earn much.
If I sold up I could buy a small place without a mortgage, so wouldn't be reliant on EA exh and could get away from some of the bad memories I have from stuff which took place when he lived here. BUT the dcs really don't want to move and it is their stability, plus we have got space here.
For me, I feel if I'm honest like its holding me back. But on the other hand I know moving would be stressful, and with the dcs not wanting it and me not having to I'd feel so guilty.
I could do with the MN collective wisdom, I'm single with no other family so you lot can be my family and give me views if you don't mind