So today its my Birthday and i'm sitting at my computer crying. I am so fed up atm. I have caught my husband lying to me and three occasions in the last month and now my parents have lied to me too.
My brother was with his fiance for 2 years they broke up but have been trying to patch things up. When they broke up i sent a text to her and said how sorry i was they had split up and i was always here if she wanted me. My Dad went mad and accussed me of getting involved. I have the text on my phone and i have checked the words and they are exactly as i have written them on this page. My brother wasn't bothered so i let it go. Fast forward to last week and i popped round to my parents after my hoiday to say hello and asked where my brother was ' Oh we don't keep tabs on him we don't know' Well they did know and told me a barefaced lie because he was on holiiday with his girlfriend.
Now my husband he has been caught red handed lying to me in the last three weeks. First lie - I asked him to ring our friend who was coming to stay with us (well his old friend) and check what time his train was in so i could make my arrangements around picking him up from the station. So i was helping him. Anyway he kept saying he couldn't get hold of him and when he did the line was so bad he couldn't make it out, and he was going to see his mother in the evening so he couldn't phone him that evening. I looked at his phone as i smelt a rat (I would like to point out i never look at his phone, ever) anyway youv'e guessed it there was no phone call made.
Lie number two - my daughter boyfriend was going on excercise with the raf. Whilst we was on holiday so she was on her own for a week. She is 22 so it wasn't a problem well he told me he was in england and named the base. Well he came back with a langyard from Belgium for the recent memorials. So why lie , by this tage i was getting exasperated.
Third lie - He said that my youngest son had said something and it was just bought up in the conversation yesterday. After the chat with lots of friends and family, my son came and found me and said he had never said what my husband had told me. I double checked and said that i wanted to check the details. Sure enough my husband had lied again.
Today is my birthday and i really dont feel like celebrating it. I feel so let down at the moment and im not sure what to do. How can you start to belive a liar.