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Abuse Ex says sorry...

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Tory92 · 16/08/2017 12:41

Background
2 year relationship, physically, emotionally, sexually, psychologically abusive.
He said give me a baby, but when baby arrived he became even more abusive.
After baby is born I build up the courage to leave him after he hits me again. Lost my job, home everything and now a single parent, living with family, my whole world is rocked.

After 4 months of no contact I get a letter in the mail that he's sorry (not sure what for) and been going to anger management and he wants to try again. And dropped my car back after 6 months of keeping it without my permission.
Police have warned him 2 times about contacting me.

AIBU to feel let down. The letter was selfish and didn't come across as genuine at all.

As a side note
I will never have a relationship with this man again 100%.

OP posts:
shivermytimbers · 16/08/2017 12:46

To me, his apology seems like another way of trying to control you now that he sees his usual methods don't work any more.
If I were you I'd try and keep any contact as business like as possible regarding child support/ visitation and keep him at a safe distance.
Well done for LTB!

AfunaMbatata · 16/08/2017 12:59

Meh, it's all just bullshit. Id tell the police he is contacting you. Don't engage with him at all.

Tory92 · 16/08/2017 13:12

Just seems like a massive let down. After everything all I'm worth to him is a shitty half hearted letter.

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Applebloom · 16/08/2017 13:18

If he was truely sorry he'd be too disgusted with himself to even contact you!
His half hearted boohoo letter is to soothe his own ego
Contact police again

IrritatedUser1960 · 16/08/2017 13:25

Try again!!!!!! That would last all of five minutes.

You are incredibly wise not to allow this.

Mrscropley · 16/08/2017 13:27

I waited over ten years for an apology from exh.

It was heartfelt though didn't change my disgust for him. .
Few months isn't enough time for true reflection on twatism imo.

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