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Stranger crush - thoughts taking over my marriage

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Onlyme100 · 15/08/2017 17:15

So I just happened to lock eyes with a complete stranger whilst on holiday (complete rush of hormones!!!) Blush . But I'm married and have children. I didn't hint anything to him but since I'm home now....I just CANNOT stop thinking of him, of his hair, mannerism etc. Yes I do feel so bad that I'm constantly thinking/fantasizing about something that will not happen with someone I will never see. I love DH so much. I wish I could just stop this silliness that has taken over my life.

Its now got to the stage where I cant even be bothered to dress smart, do my hair...I mean what's the point...who's going to see or be impressed with old mother Hubbard over here.

Has anyone else been here...any advice on how to get these monsters out of my head?

OP posts:
BusterGonad · 15/08/2017 17:18

Is your marriage stale? Does you husband not make you feel attractive anymore? Something is obviously wrong if your all het up over another man that you don't even know anything about.

WhoreOfBabyliss · 15/08/2017 18:05

I think what you are experiencing if fairly normal. It's your hormones doing you no favours. It will fade.

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